
We've been
there, too.
Traditional marriage and family coaching can seem adversarial.
It can seem like the coach is an umpire telling each person what they are doing wrong.
Connection Codes coaching with us starts differently.
We help you figure out what emotions you are experiencing, and then help you learn how to safely process and communicate them with your partner and others your life.
When we can learn to process our emotions in a safe and healthy way, we can then find healthy, secure connection with each other. From there, all the problems get a little smaller and little easier to solve.
The best part? You won’t need our coaching forever! You will learn how to connect with your partner and the people you love so you can work through your pain and issues together in a more healthy way.


In our 37+ years of marriage, our family has weathered numerous storms common to many households — raising children (10!), coping with the death of a child, job loss, health problems, family divorce, and even church-related challenges.
Though our devotion to Christ and one another has held us together, we have not always felt truly connected.
The discovery of Connection Codes radically improved our ability to connect & communicate with one another and the people we interact with. This has proven valuable to me (Roy) in my work as a real-estate agent in San Angelo, TX.
As Certified Connection Codes Coaches, we specialize in helping married or engaged Christian couples break through conflict and rebuild true intimacy with proven, faith‑aligned tools.


